Friday, March 8, 2019

February

February 17th, Elisabeth received  Patriarchal Blessing.

I love this quote. So true. It reminds me of the scripture, "by small and simple things are great things brought to pass." I remind myself of these quotes when I am taking very small steps toward a big goal. With health and fitness: exercise each day and eating whole foods. With my goal to someday publish a book: writing 5 days a week, for a couple of hours each day. For my spiritual health and working on my relationship with the Savior: searching the scriptures and praying each day. For my relationship with Scott and the kids: taking a little time each day to connect with each one, and scheduling dates with Scott each weekend.
So funny story about this dvd. Elisabeth had asked to bring it to Spanish class months ago (Probably September/October) for a project. Fast forward to January when the new Mary Poppins came out to the theater and a friend asked to borrow it. I couldn't find it anywhere and we realized Elisabeth must have not returned it. I asked her about it and she couldn't remember but was sure she must have brought it home. I asked her to check with her spanish teacher. She forgot, and forgot, and forgot, and then in February when she got a phone after finishing personal progress, I messaged her during school saying, "if you can't find it during spanish today, I'm going to have you buy it for me on Amazon this evening and it's about $20". Guess what, she found it and brought it home that night! Okay, maybe not so funny; un poco infuriating :), and classic teen, right?

 Annabelle's date month with mom and dad is February (also her birthday month...we plan it that way on purpose and they have two date nights/year.). We surprised her with tickets to see Wizard of Oz at the Hale Center Theater. Afterward they got to meet and take pictures with Lexi Walker, who played Dorothy. Because Hale Theater is expensive, we decided to just make this a daddy/daughter date.

You know how I mentioned in the previous post that we've been getting a lot of snow? Well, one can only handle so much outdoor sledding and snowman building. we've  also watched lots of movies and played games on the Wii.
 Elisabeth and Nora on the sledding hill.
 Skye and Jane playing in the snow.
 Have I mentioned before that I belong to two book clubs? The first one,  I started attending back in 2007, though I took a two year break when I moved to Colorado (but I also participated in a book club there).  I meet with people from my old neighborhood, half of which have moved out of that neighborhood, but still live close enough to get together for book club, monthly. The other book club is made up with people from my current neighborhood. Anyhow, I am hosting book club for the first book club I mentioned, in March (today actually, since this post is late), and I choose our Prophet's biography. It was written when he was an apostle, back in 2004. It is amazing! And it's pretty big. So when my second book club said it was my turn to host in April, I suggested this book, since I had just finished it and because I'm not always the best about reading books from both book clubs each month; I probably get to them both about half the time. I keep notes of my nonfiction books mostly, on my phone, and on my goodreads account, and I had SO many for this book. I loved reading about his formative years, his family life growing up, his wife and their family, his schooling, time in the navy, time as a heart surgeon etc. I am so impressed with how well he uses his time and how disciplined he is in so many areas of his life. What a good example!
  Annabelle turned 11 in February and she was so excited to plan a Harry Potter party that I couldn't say 'no', even though this experienced mom-of-five had done this before and knew the work and time and preparation involved....well, I couldn't say 'no' after she promised to help A LOT with the prep work. And she really came through for me. Here are the invitations she printed off and tied up in ribbons a couple of weeks before the party. She found an example of an invitation on Pinterest, and then copied it. We normally don't encourage plagiarizing, unless it's for a really good reason, like a harry potter birthday party :). She had asked to invite 12 girls, since she's almost 12, and I had agreed. Then I thought to ask how many girls there are in her school class and when she said 16, I said, "so we're inviting all but 4 girls?" "yes" came her reply. So we printed off four more invitations and invited all of the girls in the class.

The Saturday before the party Annabelle and I made chocolate frogs. We also shopped for other party supplies. 
 I took these pictures so we can compare height/growth of these kids over the next few years.
 Here Charles is 13. I'm curious to see when he passes me up, and if he passes up dad.
 He's getting close to me.
 I've mentioned before that Sundays Scott often takes over the kitchen and we often have the kids help as well. I absolutely love this, so of course I take pictures so we can remember it always.
 These are lemon ricotta pancakes that we made up and loved.
 Not sure why I took a picture of my green smoothie, except maybe just because it looked pretty and very green? I've been drinking green smoothies for breakfast since 2010, that's 9 years now!
 The night before Valentine's Day, Scott and I volunteered to clean the Jordan River Temple with about 40 others. We were there from 10pm -1230am which is WAY past our bed time. Needless to say, we slept in Valentine's morning and we were pleased to see our doors had been heart attacked by Annabelle.
 I had prepared in advance and made pink pancake batter the day before, and we cooked them into heart shapes that morning for breakfast.
 And dinner was simple yet festive. I found these heart shaped cheese ravioli pastas at Costco a couple of weeks before and we had them with dinner, along with a heart shaped Papa Murphy's pizza, and salad, since over half of the children don't like Ravioli.

We have a tradition of pulling the kids out of school for lunch on their birthday (or near their birthday if it falls on a non-school day). Since Annabelle's birthday was on a Saturday this year, the day before her birthday, I picked her up and we ate lunch together at Cafe Rio. She decided to come home and work on some more party preparations since she only had a couple hours left of school, and I thought that sounded like a good idea. No doubt the other kids will request this as well. It's all good, they rarely get sick or miss school for any reason. I think this was her first time missing any classes this year. They're good students.
 Annabelle addressed a bunch of envelopes to Harry Potter (cupboard under the stairs, 4 Privet Drive, Little Whinging...), and we stuck them all over the fireplace.
 Then she got to work on blowing up balloons, and making them look like Hedwig. Once Elisabeth got home, she helped as well. What was I doing, you ask? I was making and decorating the elaborate HP cakes she requested.
 
Jane wanted to make Annabelle a gift and she went on pinterest and found a craft using popsicle sticks to make a dangling earring holder. It was pretty easy and turned out cute...though we've had to reglue it a couple of times.
Annabelle got money from grandparents, Friends Legos, Vans and a shirt. 
We had about 14 girls show up for the party. Once they arrived, we sorted them into houses. 


 Annabelle made labels for all of the food. Some were harry potter themed like the chocolate frogs, the licorice wands, golden snitch (white chocolate truffles) and the Bertie Botts every flavored beans(actually jelly bellies), and then others we couldn't think of creative names so she just labeled them as what they were: chips, Izze drinks, strawberries etc

 We had four rotations, so each house started at one, we set a timer for ten minutes, and then rotated. We had wand making (chopsticks and paint),

HP charades, bertie botts bean tasting/guessing (these were the nasty flavored ones) and a game where you tied a black balloon(dementor) around your ankle and tried to pop the others in your group.









Sunday February 17th, Elisabeth received her patriarchal blessing. She went in fasting, and it was beautiful.

Charles and a couple of his neighborhood friends, have been creating youtube videos of random stuff. Since they nearly have 50 subscribers, and since we had leftover birthday cake, they decided to film a 'happy 50 subscribers' celebratory video, where they made a sign and ate cake. They crack me up.
 The girls had a midwinter break, an entire week off of school, so we decided to see the new Lego movie on $5 Tuesday. It was pretty cute. They also have discounted pizza on Tuesdays, as well as discounted mini popcorn, so we splurged and got some food to eat while we watched.
These sisters are two years apart, but very close in height. Jane is pretty small, and Nora is pretty average when you're comparing kids their age. They share a bedroom, and sometimes they're great friends, but often they get on each others nerves and fight. Even though we have spare rooms in the house, we make them share. Sometimes, for my sanity, I wish they didn't, but mostly I think it's character building and good for people to learn how to live with a roommate. 
 love this sign. It was up in Tumbletek's lobby area. And speaking of tumbling, Elisabeth started landing her back tuck in February. She lands it about 50% of the time. The other 50% of the time, looks a bit more painful. But nothing worth having comes easy.
 Back in 2002, we lived in Wymount student family housing, and so did Gina and Ben. Gina was one of my first visiting teachers, and we were stroller walking buddies, once Elisabeth was born. We've stayed in contact over the years and we get together a couple of times during the year. She messaged a few months back and told me Wicked would be in town, and I said Yes!!! I'd never seen it before, though I knew some of the songs. It was fun to be there, the cast did great, and I wished we had better seats, but by the time we signed up, all the closer seats were gone and we had to go on a weeknight. Either way, it was great!

 I don't normally buy packaged snack foods for my kids because we have one in particular that goes through them super fast, eating more than her share, and eating nothing else. So they mostly snack on nuts, seeds, fruits and veggies. But my teens had been complaining about our pantry food options, and they prefer going to friends houses, probably to eat their food, so I gave in and picked up some snack foods while at Costco. But I also picked up matching tupperware and labeled them with their names. Then we put the snacks in there that they can eat for that week, and how fast or how slow they decide to eat them, is totally up to them, but once they're gone, they're gone until the next school week. It has worked well so far.

Wednesday, March 6, 2019

January

I just ordered my 2018 blog posts and so our 12th blog book should be arriving next week sometime! Wow, I'm honestly a little surprised I've had this blog that long. Granted, I don't post nearly as regularly as I did some years ago, but I'm still documenting something, so I'll take it! 

I'm going to be doing some catching up for January and February and then hopefully I can stay on top of March a little better. I scheduled blog writing time into my calendar this week, and my goal is to block out 30 minutes to an hour each week to work on this family blog so that I don't miss any of the important things going on around here. 

Beginning January of this year, our church time was reduced from 3 hours down to 2! This was a big change and we are loving it. We love the extra time at home we have together. And we love that the church has also introduced the new "Come, Follow Me" study guide, for individuals and families, and we've been taking advantage of that Sundays. We look at the chapters were supposed to read that week, and the study guide questions and activities that go along with it, and then we divide it all up between everyone in the family, and meet back together to share what we've learned. Since we have church from 9-11, we usually pick a time in the afternoon, around 3 or so, for our "come, follow me" discussion. We always have a challenge at the end, something to work on over the next week, and then during dinner throughout that week, we talk about how it's going. As that is all New Testament reading, we also still read the Book of Mormon each morning with the family. We tried doing it at 710am, about 15 minutes before people were heading out the door, but it was too rushed and people were still scrambling to get ready and it was distracting for many. So we decided to move the time up to 630am, which is the time the kids are supposed to be up and moving. We have a basket that holds a copy of the Book of Mormon for everyone, so we bring that to wherever we are reading that morning, usually the hallway or the living room. 

Sunday is the day Scott has time to help out more in the kitchen, and he always does, which I love. On this particular Sunday, I had wanted to try a roll recipe a friend from bookclub had given me (that I begged for), and Scott and I worked together til they were done. 

 They were amazing! But I think we'll save this for very special occasions as it's all white flour, and has quite a bit of butter and some sugar. No wonder they were so good! Maybe a good Thanksgiving day roll.
 January 6, Charles turned 13! Two teenagers in the house! He had picked out a camera on Amazon.com, which we bought and wrapped up for his birthday, and which he was very eagerly anticipating.
 To celebrate, he invited a couple of good friends to go bowling and to In-N-Out burger, and then back home for a movie and Fruit Pizza. Well, turns out  you should have a reservation to go bowling on a weekend night, so rather than wait an hour to bowl, they decided to play some arcade games and do lazer tag. The rest went as planned and fun was had by all.
 Elisabeth is in the 9th grade and is on the middle school dance company. She has loved her time dancing with them this year, so much so that she even signed up to do a dance class on Saturdays for a couple of months. But that didn't last long, as she decided she'd like to try out for cheer next year as she's spent more time as a tumbler these past couple of years, so she dropped the Saturday dance classes (though still dances for an hour each week day at school with her team), and she continues to tumble 2 hours each week (she had dropped down to 1 hour when she picked up saturday dance). Here is a picture I snapped of her at one of her dance performances. She's the one on top that everyone is holding up.
 January 10th, I flew out to WA for a long weekend with my mom and family there. I hadn't seen Andre since my dad's funeral a few years ago as he's been busy and away with the Marines, so it was fun to catch up. It was also nice to see my sister Pepa, her daughter Lani and baby Spencer.
 It was also nice to meet Pepa's new husband Danny.
 I loved our time together, visiting, eating, and watching Hallmark movies. Mom and I went to her senior aerobics class (I LOVE watching the seniors get their groove on; so cute! That's going to be me someday!), and we also attended a healthy cooking class at the hospital which was equally fun.
 Elisabeth is 14 and a half, and loves to take selfies on my phone. I'm pretty sure I have hundreds on there. Some are more pleasant than others.

 With all of her love of selfie taking, you'd think she'd enjoy being in a family group shot. I guess not! I love when we get to play games together on weekend, but it doesn't happen often enough, and when it does, it's usually on a Sunday over a long weekend, when they're not with their friends and they don't have school the following day. Maybe we need to just suck it up and play most Sundays, school the next day or not.

 We have gotten A LOT of snow this year. More than in years past. We even had a snow day! We've never had a snow day in the 8 years our kids have been attending schools here in Utah. Love this cute Nora and her amazing blue hat!
 I took the girls and Lily (Our neighbor, and Elisabeth's piano student) to the park near by where we did some sledding and snowman making. We lasted about an hour. That's how long it took for my toes and face to feel numb, so I called it a day and we went back home and made the girls some hot chocolate. And watched a Hallmark movie. Because we love feel good Hallmark movies.


 Um, sometimes Elisabeth talks Annabelle into doing some dangerous dance moves. This one didn't end in tears, so that's good.
 Scott also had a birthday this month, on January 24th! He turned 38 (I think...it's getting harder to keep track. Too many years, I suppose.). Charles got him a fishing rod (I paid for half because I thought it was a thoughtful and worthy gift), and I got him some clothes and a special backpack he's been wanting that's expensive and that is good for using when he rides his bike to work as it's weatherproof and he can put his laptop in there along with other things. He hasn't used it yet, but hopefully he will when the new bike he just ordered arrives (he sold his other bike a month ago).

 Scott requested a giant cookie and ice cream so they could make a cookie ice cream pie. Oh, and yep, see, 38 on the cookie pie!


I am the singing time leader at church (aka Primary chorister). I have felt squished up in the front for a long time, because our primary is huge and we need 80 chairs in there for Junior, and same for Senior. Also, the kids on the ends of our straight rows, were not facing me, and seemed so far away. Then I came across this seating idea, where the chairs are set up in long diagonal rows, all facing the middle, and we gave it a try. And loved it! We've been doing it since the beginning of the year and I have more room and I can see everyone and they can see me. 
 Every month, Elisabeth's school dance team has dinner (or brunch) together, and they rotate houses. We hosted the January dance co dinner, when Scott was out of town (not on purpose; he attended an uncle's funeral in PA), and everything went really well. We had about 12 members show up and we ate Mexican, which is my go-to for large groups: I make a crock pot of black beans, a crock pot of chicken, rice in my rice cooker, and then we had some tortillas, shredded cheese, salsa, lettuce, guacamole and we're set. After dinner they walked to Walmart where they divided into groups and did a scavenger hunt that Elisabeth had prepared. Once they were back they had brownies and ice cream (compliments of Maddie Hansen, our good friend who is on the dance team), and they played some Wii Mario Kart until their parents arrived. Fun was had by all.
 Scott got this picture with his parents while on his quick trip for the funeral. We were glad Scott was able to go and visit with family on the Smith side that he hadn't seen in many years. And of course, it's always so nice to visit with mom and dad, and sister Kelley as well. Krissy couldn't make it this time as she had recently been diagnosed with breast cancer and they were needing to run tests that weekend. She was missed.

 I liked these pictures Jane made of her best friend, her teachers and instructor.


And I think that about wraps up January, or at least, that's all I can remember from the pictures I've taken. Oh, and I am still substituting at my girls school once a week, and writing at home about 10 hours a week, a couple of hours each day(working on a fictional book that I hope to finish before the end of the school year). Thursdays are still my temple days with Sugar, from 3pm on each day I'm running kids around everywhere like a part time chauffeur, and then I try to fit everything else in between(errands, bills, making appointments, dinner, cleaning, laundry, reading). Scott and I still wake up about 5am each morning to read scriptures, and exercise for an hour before the kids are up by 630. Life is good. The Lord blesses us abundantly. All is well.

Sunday, January 6, 2019

New Years Eve, 2018 in Review, Books Read in 2018

New Years Eve we went to Thai Basil for dinner, just like last year. Charles and Elisabeth then went to friends houses to celebrate and Scott and I stayed here with the littles. Jane and Nora went to bed at 10, but Annabelle stayed up til midnight and had friend Kylie over til about 10. It was a good year. Here are some of the highlights:


  • Me and Scott's trip to Europe- Italy and Austria
  • Trip to North Carolina with Smith Family
  • Family Reunion at our house with Grazzini/Garnica family
  • Jane Braces on
  • Elisabeth and Charles braces off
  • Nora starting piano and tumbling
  • Jane and Elisabeth progressing in Tumbling
  • Charles progressing in percussion and sports
  • Girls progressing in piano
  • Nora going to school full-time
  • Scotts Olympic Triathlon
  • Temple visits
  • Elisabeth teaching piano
  • Visiting family in ID
  • Nora's stitches (cyst removed)
  • Elisa half marathon with Elisa L.
  • Elisabeth's participation in Jordan River temple dedication celebration
  • Jane's baptism
  • Mark and Stacey's sealing
  • Elisa coming back from IT band injury 
  • finishing basement bathroom
  • Elisa winter trip to visit mom in WA
  • Nora stopped sucking her thumb
  • Charles turned 12 and got to go to the temple
  • Elisa starting work and more writing
  • Elisa Certificate of Plant Based Nutrition
  • Scott and Elisa's work in Church callings in Elder's Quorum and as Primary Chorister(not new, but always a big part of our life)

Books Read 2018

  1. Lietenant Terry's Christmas Fudge- by Gerald Lund
  2. Girl, Wash Your Face- by Rachel Hollis
  3. The Power of Habit- by Charles Duhigg
  4. Keeper of the Lost Cities- by Shannon Messenger
  5. Radical Beauty- by Kimberly Snyder
  6. Before We Were Yours- by Lisa Wingate 
  7. Michael Vey, The Prisoner of Cell 25- by Richard Paul Evans
  8. Wonder- by RJ Palacio
  9. Our of My Mind- by Sharon Draper
  10. The False Prince- by Jennifer Nielsen
  11. *7 Habits of Highly Effective People - by Stephen R Covey 
  12. *Edenbrooke- by by Julianne Donaldson 
  13. The Orphan Keeper- by Camron Wright
  14. *The Book of Mormon
  15. One by One- by David A Bednar
  16. The Fifth Way- by David Brisbin
  17. Heir to Edenbrooke- by Julianne Donaldson 
  18. Book of Mormon Study Guide 
* books that I've read before, but reread this year